Hard things will happen — that cannot be avoided. But how long and how deeply you suffer over them is, to a significant degree, a choice you make in how you respond. This is not a claim that suffering is easy to control, but that your relationship to pain is something you have some say in.
Quote by Haruki Murakami: “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
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Historical Context
Murakami published What I Talk About When I Talk About Running in 2007, a memoir exploring the parallels between long-distance running and novel writing. Japan in the mid-2000s was recovering from the economic stagnation of the 1990s Lost Decade, and Murakami's themes of quiet individual endurance resonated in a culture reckoning with collective exhaustion.
About the Author
Japanese novelist whose works, including Norwegian Wood, Kafka on the Shore, and The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, blend realism with the surreal and have made him one of the most internationally recognized living novelists. His memoir What I Talk About When I Talk About Running describes his philosophy of endurance through long-distance running.
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